Susan Young Gray was born in Lynn, Massachusetts, to Norman Belmont Young and Elizabeth Arlene Bolton. She was married first to the late Glasco Smith and now to Larry Zieglar Gray, Sr. She has one son, Matthew Thaddeus Smith. Matthew graduated from Swarthmore College with a BA, with a double major in Mathematics and Education. He graduated from Stanford University with an MA in Education.
Mrs. Gray received a Bachelor of Science in Mathematics from the University of Maryland. She retired from the U. S. Nuclear Regulatory Commission after a 35-year career. She started as an intern after college and retired as a Senior Program Analyst. She worked in the Office of the Executive Director for Operations, Office of the Controller, and the Office of the Chief Information Officer. The last ten years of her responsibilities included the formulation and execution of a $45M budget for the agency’s computer, network and telecommunications infrastructure in the Information and Computer Operations Division, Office of the Chief Information Officer. Sue received the NRC’s Meritorious Service Award for Equal Employment Opportunity Excellence, recognizing outstanding efforts in serving as a collateral-duty EEO Counselor for 22 years, working with individuals seeking redress through the agency’s complaint process, as well as with managers and supervisors at all levels.
Memberships
The National Guild of St. Margaret of Scotland, Inc (Reorganizing Treasurer General; Financial Reviewer)
Hereditary Order of the First Families of Massachusetts (Treasurer General)
The IX (Co-Founder; Founding Treasurer General)
Legion of Vikings and Valkyries (Founding Treasurer General)
Descendants of Early Postmasters (Founding member; Treasurer General)
The Order of El Cid (Charter member, Treasurer)
Scions of Freedom Signers (Founding Treasurer)
Descendants of Colonial Indentured Servants (Founding Inspector General)
Order of Alba (Charter member, Historian)
National Society Daughters of Founders and Patriots of America (National Chairman Preservation and Restoration of Records; Former National Councillor; National Supplies Chairman; Maryland Chapter President; Treasurer; Recording Secretary)
Descendants of American Prisoners of War (Founding Director)
Founders of Places of Worship in America (Charter member; Financial Reviewer)
Descendants of Early American Governors 1607-1861 (Founding Financial Reviewer)
Order of Descendants of the Ancient and Honorable Artillery Company (Financial Reviewer)
Plymouth Hereditary Society (Financial Reviewer)
Order of Ancestors of Armorial Ancestry (Member Finance Committee)
National Society New England Women (Maryland Colony Reorganizing Treasurer; Former National Chairman Supplies; Yearbook Chairman; State Recording Secretary)
National Society Colonial Dames of the XVII Century (Former National Headquarters Supervisor; National Chairman Technology Systems Services; Vice Chairman Tickets; District of Columbia State Treasurer; State Historian)
National Society Dames of the Court of Honor (Former National Finance Committee; Air Force Academy Chairman; Protocol Chairman; Maryland State Recording Secretary; Historian)
Society of the Descendants of the Colonial Clergy (Former Secretary General; Historian General; Councillor)
Associated Daughters of Early American Witches (Former Treasurer General; Chaplain General; Auditor)
Order of the First Families of Maine 1604-1652 (Founding Secretary General; Former Financial Reviewer)
Order of the First Families of New Hampshire (Founding Treasurer General; Former Corresponding Secretary General; Auditor; Councillor)
Hereditary Society of Teachers (Founding Treasurer General; Former Financial Reviewer)
Descendants of Cape Cod and the Islands (Charter member; Former Treasurer General; Financial Reviewer)
The National Society of Saints and Sinners (Charter member; Former Auditor)
Descendants of Sheriffs & Constables of Colonial & Antebellum America (Charter member; Former Auditor)
National Society Daughters of the American Revolution (Former State Treasurer 2012-2015; National Vice Chairman Seating; National Vice Chairman Corridor Hostess; Eastern Division Vice Chairman Genealogical Records; National Vice Chairman Buildings and Grounds; National Vice Chairman Independence Day Parade; Chapter Regent)
National Society Daughters of the American Colonists (Former State Treasurer)
National Society United States Daughters of 1812 (Former District of Columbia State Chaplain; State Librarian)
Order of the Descendants of the Justiciars (Founding member)
Society of the Descendants of Lady Godiva (Founding member)
Descendants of Brian Boru (Founding member)
Order of the Red Dragon (Charter member)
Order of the Sovereigns of Ancient Scandinavia (Charter member)
Baronial Order of the Magna Carta
Crown and Sceptre
Descendants of Colonial Physicians and Chirugiens
Descendants of Fossors
Dutch Colonial Society
Flagon and Trencher
Founders Fellowship
General Society of Mayflower Descendants (District of Columbia life member)
Hereditary Order of First Families of Rhode Island & Providence Plantations
National Society Colonial Daughters of Seventeenth Century
National Society Daughters of Colonial Wars
National Huguenot Society
National Society Women Descendants of the Ancient and Honorable Artillery Company
Non-Compos Mentis
Military Order of the Crusades
Order of American Cousins of Present & Future Sovereigns of Great Britain
Order of First Families of Vermont
Order of New England
Order of the Crown of Charlemagne
Order of the First Families of Connecticut
Order of the House of Wessex
Order of the Kings and Queens in the Holy Lands
Order of the Merovingian Dynasty
Order of the Norman Conquest
Order of the Three Crusades 1096-1192
Order of the Vietnam War
Piscataqua Pioneers
The Colonial Dames of America (Chapter XXXI)
The Hereditary Order of Families of Presidents & First Ladies of America
Winthrop Society
Other Memberships
New England Historic Genealogical Society
Maine Genealogical Society
Essex (MA) Society of Genealogists
Hancock (ME) Historical Society
Montgomery County (MD) Genealogical Society
Hancock County (ME) Genealogical Society
Interests
Mrs. Gray is the recipient of the Sons of the American Revolution Martha Washington Medal.
Sue’s favorite pastime is researching her ancestors. She first became interested when in 1979, her paternal grandmother gave her a copy of an old handwritten document listing the children of her fourth great-grandfather Stephen Young, written in 1875. As the first in her family to do any significant research, she has been successful in documenting her lineage to six gateway ancestors: Joseph Bolles, Percival Lowell, Anne (Derehaugh) Stratton, John Stratton, Elizabeth (Stratton) Thorndike, Richard More, and has 12 Mayflower passengers. She also enjoys researching for others and working with DNA results. She manages over 25 DNA kits for family and friends. Using mitochondrial DNA testing, she documented her matrilineal line to Catherine Lejeune, the Ancestral Matriarch of the Acadian Savoie family, born in France and marrying c 1651 in Acadia. This line also includes ancestors of Mi’kmaq descent.